7 Signs of an Incompatible Relationship
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7 Signs of an Incompatible Relationship
Getting into a new relationship can sometimes be a scary thing and you will often choose the wrong partner and make mistakes. Here we will show you the 7 important signs of an incompatible relationship.
1. You don't get each other
If you have a hard time understanding how he/she is feeling, thinking or what they need then it’s a sign that you two might not last long. It’s better to be with someone you can be in sync with that can pick up on your non-verbal clues and tones of voice. That they also focus on you and your feelings.
2. You're too different from each other
While opposites do attract you have to realize that a healthy couple should share a few similarities. This doesn’t mean that you two have to like all the same music, movies or hobbies but you two should share the same values, interest or even humor at least. If the differences out weigh the similarities then you two will encounter conflict more often then not.
3. You try to change each other rather then learn from each other.
The mark of a healthy relationship is having a partner who gives you the drive and motivation to change for the better. The most important thing to remember is that if you try to change them let it be because they want to. If they try to change how you dress, speak or who you hang out with then that’s a red flag.
4. Constant Arguing
Its normal and healthy to disagree with your partner every now and then. Especially if its about an important topic but in unhealthy relationships the smallest disagreements can lead to constant bickering and arguments. Signs that you two are not on the right path is when you fight dirty like name calling, holding grudges, humiliating each other and emotional blackmail.Â
5. You Avoid all of your problems
While constant fighting is not ideal you have to remember that not disagreeing about anything is also not a good thing. You need to be honest and communicate with one another and know that pretending that everything is okay will not last forever.
6. Your Isolated From Everyone Else.
It’s important to spend time with your partners loved ones so you can get to know them better. Couples that make the effort to be close to the people in their partners lives usually last longer because it creates a certain bond between you two. It shows just how much you care about them and their friends and family.
7. You're Not Attracted to Them Anymore
You two have to have chemistry or a certain level of attraction for the relationship to last. With out that spark of passion you two might be better as friends rather then partner. Having chemistry and romance will make you attracted to people that you see as “more then friends” and without passion you two will only be platonic.
Final Thoughts
You have to be aware of many things before getting into a serious relationship. You must know what you want at the end of the day. You must know your own self value and how far you are willing to go for love. Knowing those two things will help you find the right partner.
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Victor Paredes
Victor Paredes is a contributor at FrankLegend.com and is based in Brooklyn. For inquiries reach out via email at victorhugoparedesx@gmail.com